FREE ESSAY ON A LIFE PLAN FOR EFFECTIVE

A LIFE PLAN FOR EFFECTIVE

A LIFE PLAN FOR EFFECTIVE
HUMAN RELATIONS
February 19, 2000
Different Views of Success
? Some believe climbing the corporate ladder to make as much money as possible is
success. They work extreme hours and dedicate their entire life to work. 
? The pressure to work longer, harder and to compete is causing a wide-range of health
problems.
? Others believe it is more important to work less, sacrifice higher salaries to have
more time for family and friends.
☺ Best Scenario: To have a healthy combination of both these views
Developing Your Own Life Plan
? It is vital that people define their own ideas of success. 
? Do not base your development on the judgment or view of others.
? Dr. Dyer "Do something because you want to or feel you have to, not because of its
outcome." 
? Find out what you want in life and create everything else around that dream. 
True success is a combination of many achievements, not just a single accomplishment
Right Livelihood
Work consciously chosen, done with full awareness and care, leading to enlightenment. (p.
456 text)
1. Based on conscious choice
2. Places money in a secondary position
3. Recognizes that work is a vehicle for self-expression
People with Right Livelihood share these traits:
? Higher self-esteem
? Find it easier to make decisions
? Self-disciplined
? Have established meaningful goals
? Feel as sense of happiness as they meet their goals
Non-Financial Resources
These 4 components can enrich your life:
1. Mental Health
2. Education/Intellectual growth
3. Leisure Time
4. Healthy Spirituality
Putting Balance In Your Life
Habits
hab?it noun
1. a. A recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through
frequent repetition. b. An established disposition of the mind or character . 
5 Steps To Breaking a Negative or Creating a Positive Habit:
1. Motivation
2. Knowledge
3. Practice
4. Feedback
5. Reinforcement
Goal Setting
? Should be an integral part in everyone's lives.
? Set realistic and attainable goals.
? Be specific, and clear.
? Put your goals in writing, this makes it part of your consciousness.
REMEMBER, YOU HAVE THE CHOICE 
TO DECIDE WHAT KIND OF PERSON 
YOU WANT TO BE.
Dr. Wayne Dyer Video:
Improve Your Life Using The Wisdom of The Ages
? Cat Philosophy: Find happiness in your life and let it follow you
Traits of Being Successful:
? Enjoy every part of your life to the fullest extent
? Always continue to grow - being better than you used to
? Do what you want to do, not what others want you to do - "Cultivate your own garden"
? Have enthusiasm in all you do
? No conception of failure, learn what to do with the results 
There's A Genius In All Of Us:
? Realize the method that you learn best from and develop it
? Understand every person reacts or learns differently
Autobiography Story - Breaking Habits:
? Choose the "street" or path of your life
? Realize you have the choice to do anything, by having a positive outlook you can reach
your dreams