FREE ESSAY ON ALICE MUNRO'S FRIEND OF MY YOUTH

ALICE MUNRO'S FRIEND OF MY YOUTH

Throughout the myriad of cultures on our planet, we find different and sometimes opposing
beliefs defining the values of an ideal citizen. Among these beliefs it is difficult to
isolate a single set and deem them to be superior to another. The reason for this is that
they vary based on cultural tradition, religious beliefs and even the technological
advancement of that particular society.
Although it is more evident with multicultural belief differences, we find large
contrasts within the gap of one generation in a single culture. This phenomena is
exemplified in Alice Munro's "Friend of My Youth" with the relationship between the
narrator and her mother.
The purpose of this paper is to examine the changing beliefs of a society throughout the
period of one generation. The topics whose influences provided significant changes within
the last generation and which will be discussed in this paper are the following: firstly,
the changing role of women and the effects of feminism on our society; secondly, the
social repercussions of the religious withdrawal from family life and the secularism of
our culture. Finally, the effects that technology and the age of computerization have
taken on people's lifestyles will be examined.
Until the early seventies when the feminist movement began, women were considered to be
inferior to men. This belief resulted in the notion that women were unfit to take part in
the workforce and were better suited to stay at home and provide care for her family.
The feminist movement attempted to extinguish the preconception of inferiority that had
stereotyped women in the past. This aggressive rejection of anything less then equality
became a revolution of womankind and a new approach to life for most females.
The notion that women were unfit for the workplace was abolished and a stream of female
employees surged into the workforce. These women were confident, ambitious and determined
not only to succeed, but to outdo their male counterparts.
According to a "Woman's Forum" database, sixty-percent of women in North America are
active in the workforce today. This fact alone represents the vast change that has
occurred in the role of women in our society. Although feminism still exists, at large,
the goal of equality has been attained and women are no longer considered inferior to
men.
The second focus of this paper is the influence that secularism has on our society. The
emphasis on religion in today's culture has diminished considerably over the period of a
generation. The role of the church has changed from having strong political and social
suasion to having no political and low social influence.
Although the doctrines of Jesus Christ have not changed for two thousand years, society
as a whole has lost faith during the course of the last century. Friedrich Neitzsche
describes the faith of modern humanity as follows: "Modern men, with their obtuseness to
all Christian nomenclature, no longer sense the gruesome superlative which lay for an
antique taste in the paradoxical formula `God on the cross`."
Modern citizens may have become lazy or too preoccupied with the events that surround
them in this very complex world to take the time to reflect on life. For in these moments
of reflection, we come closer to our spiritual selves and the inclination to worship God
emerges.
Another cause for what seems like a "religious withdrawal" is the astounding increase in
technology and computerization. Some people seem to be turning to their computers for
salvation and worshipping their hard drives as if they were higher life forms in order to
relieve their existential angst.
It is this technology and computerization which will be the topic for the final part of
this essay. Technology is a loose term that people apply to any modern advancement.
According to the Thorndike-Barnhart dictionary, technology is defined as: "The science of
industrial arts". This indicates that technology is basically the science of fabricating
goods and materials.
These goods and materials have facilitated the lives of humans to the greatest extent
imaginable. Most people's lives today in North America would not function if you took
away their car and their computer. Most humans have become forced to rely on modern
conveniences in order to function properly in our materialistic world.
Alice Munro's "Friend of My Youth" depicts a culture which has resisted the changes
examined in this essay and has remained coddled in an existence of the past. The ideals
and values of their community seem ancient and foreign when compared to those of modern
society.
Human culture is finding itself enslaved by convenience. We are relying increasingly on
technology to facilitate our lives and maintain or increase our standard of living.
Although this technology is directed with good intentions, we should open an eye to the
potential consequences that it will have in the future. 
Already the ozone layer is torn from industrial toxins that are byproducts of our
technological advancements. Yes, we have achieved higher levels of convenience and
facilitated our lifestyles considerably. However, there are costs associated with these
results. 
This resistance to change is an incredible phenomenon that displays a great amount of
courage and perseverance. To be locked in an era which they consider righteous and to
dismiss the concerns of modern society which are riddled with corruption leaves their
culture in my opinion, to be one step ahead of society.
Bibliography
References
Munro, Alice. "Friend of My Youth". The Short Story in English. Ed. Neil Besner and David
Staines. Toronto: Oxford University Press, 1991. 
Nietzsche, Friedrich. Beyond Good and Evil. London: Penguin, 1990.